The one thing you really need to stock up on…
The threat of coronavirus has everyone running to stores for hand soap, sanitizer, food, and toilet paper. But the one thing we need to really stock up on during this pandemic…compassion.
As the list of closings, cancellations, and postponements gets longer and longer, and more people are being asked to stay home from work and school, we need to remember that we’re not all going to have the same reactions to what is happening and this isn’t going to affect everyone the same way. If you’re someone in line, or has the ability to spend hundreds of dollars on supplies, count yourself lucky. Everyone can’t do that. Some things to keep in mind…
- As schools close, there are going to be kids who won’t have food to eat. If you’re someone who doesn’t have to worry about where your next meal is coming from, be thankful. There are many kids whose only meals are the ones they eat at school. It’s been nice to see that as schools are closing a lot of them have plans that include feeding students. If you’re able, support organizations like Project Bread who are helping to keep people fed all year round, and especially have a need now. You can donate by texting WALK to 243725. Compassion.
- Also when schools close, parents are having to scramble for daycare. Keep that in mind when you’re screaming “Keep those kids at home!” It’s necessary and for the public good, but it is incredibly stressful for parents, especially single parents. Compassion.
- Along the same lines, a lot of colleges are shutting down and that’s putting students there in a tough spot. Many don’t have places to go. I have seen people on social media opening their homes for students, which is incredibly kind and generous. Compassion.
- Before you tell everyone to just stay home if they’re sick (which people should do), remember everyone is not able to do that. It’s honestly part of a larger problem, but people who earn an hourly wage and don’t have sick days are being forced to choose between going to work and staying home and not being able to pay their bills. We know what people need to do, but have a little compassion for people who are having to make life choices as we all go through this. Compassion.
- Let’s not only think about the things that affect us. You may be young, healthy, able to fight this and not at high risk, but that doesn’t mean you can’t pass it on to others who are at-risk. This isn’t just about you, it’s about all of us. Compassion.
- A lot of major artists have been forced to cancel shows. For most of them it won’t put a financial burden on them. But for others, this is catastrophic. I’ve seen many local Boston artists posting about having to cancel shows and events, and it’s definitely putting a financial burden on them. A lot of people don’t think about that, but it is real and unsettling. If you want to help, or are an artist who needs help, The Boston Co. has set up a fund to help. You can either apply for a grant if you’re a Boston artist affected, or you can donate to help Boston artists. Get all the info HERE. Compassion.
- Small businesses are going to suffer. If you can, find a way to support them. If they have an online store and you don’t want to go out, shop there. Help where you can. Compassion.
I just wanted to point these things out because as I was out shopping last night for supplies, it just hit me so hard how lucky I am. I’m in a position where I am able to go out and buy things. Everyone is not so lucky. We are in this together people. If you’re in a position to help out others, please do it, however that looks for you. Shop for a neighbor, donate money or goods. Whatever you can do to help. Show compassion.
So while you’re stocking up on all those other essentials, be sure to put some compassion for others in your cart. It will make a world of difference.
~Pebbles
