(GERMANY OUT) couple in bed – 22.12.2010 (Photo by Wodicka/ullstein bild via Getty Images)

What is the most shocking way you found out you were being cheated on? This has been a large topic of conversation ever since the story came out that Shakira found out about her ex cheating by noticing her jam was missing. In case you missed it, Shakira was away and when she came back, she noticed her jam had been eaten. She knew her ex and their kids hated jam. So obviously someone else had been eating it. This led to her finding out about her ex Gerard Pique’s then mistress Clara Chia Marti. Now we are wondering how many people have learned that they were being cheated on in a random or shocking way. Some of these answers are shocking and quite aggressive. We have chosen some of our favorites from your submissions. Enjoy!

• Samantha Sullivan - caught him with a man

  “I caught him in the cemetery with a man”

• Carrie Carson - clothing left behind

  “Caught my husband cheating from fluffy scarves remnants in my car.”

• Deivis Valdes - unexpected invitation

  “I got invited to their wedding”

• Tange Torres - the butt dial

  “He butt dialed me and I heard everything”

• Dee Mora - side chick was their waitress

  “The girl he was cheating on me with was our waitress at friendlys”

• Casey Fredette - photo sharing

  “We shared a photo stream and it was our Apple tv screensaver work up to selfies of them in bed.”

• Stacey Marie - found jewelry

  ”

  I found her earring in our laundry.

  With the back of the earring still on. Tell me she didn’t want me to find out?!?! Yeah, she did!

  If it accidentally fell off her ear, there would be no back on the earring (;

  That’s what confirmed it.”

• Tiffani Gage - Facebook

  “His girlfriend put when they had started dating on Facebook, it was before he moved out. Also they first said I love you in our last Thanksgiving together. We were basically roommates with a child but it still stung.”

• Anne Fitzpatrick - knew from a look

  “My ex-husband was a musician and I was watching him on tv. There was a look between him & the fiddle player (who I already hated) and I knew. They’re married with kids now.”

• Jessica Walker - mistaken text

  “My ex had apparently been dating a girl with the same name as me and texted me saying last night was so much fun can’t wait to do it again….when I wasn’t with him that night.”

• Laura Guzman - WHO told her?

  “His daughter told me”

• Oscar Castillo - found out from WHO?

  “My pastor told me.”

• Tasha Pappoe - case of the wrong panties

  “My bf at the time was doing laundry in my dorm room and I fell asleep and he left. I woke up to these tiny panties in the middle of my dorm room. When I called him to ask about them he told me they were mine.”

• Dede Diggs - borrowed money

  “He borrowed money from the girl and wouldn’t pay her back so she inboxed me asking for it back. It was $30 “

• Danielle Leigh - ran into his wife and son

  ”

  running into his wife & son, while grocery shopping together! I had NO idea he was married with kids- until the kid started calling out “daddy” from her shopping cart.

  I was mortified… that was my most memorable shopping trip to this day.”

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