America’s Kinkiest States. Now that I have your attention, read on. Merriam-Webster defines the adjective “kinky” in a couple ways. One – Closely twisted or curled, and two – relating to, having, or appealing to unconventional tastes especially in sex. They also throw in sexually deviant if you need a little deeper dive. When it comes to kink, where does your home fit it to the equation? Bedbible did the deep dive for you and released America’s kinkiest states list.
Ranking America’s Kinkiest States
So how exactly did the sexual wellness guide Bedbible come up with this list? Well, the sex experts at the company analyzed the number of Google searches for different popular sex toys and accessories. These include: “fleshlight,” “anal beads,” and “lube.” I’m sure there was a more extensive list, but you get the idea. They wanted to know which of America’s kinkiest states did the most “googling” of X-rated content.
Some examples of kink
So what are we talking about when it comes to kink? Here are some basic examples for you.
BDSM. The acronym BDSM that means bondage, disciple, sadism, and masochism. There are many activities that fall under these labels. It all depends on your particular interests.
Role Play. Role Play is a pretty common kink, and involves partners taking on “characters” or a fantasy scenario. For inspiration, people often look at books, TV shows, and even their own fantasies.
Foot Fetish. This one’s pretty well known. It’s basically what it sounds like, an intense sexual interest in feet.
Voyeurism. If you get turned on by watching other people have sex, voyeurism is your kink. But be sure you engage in a consensual situation.
Exhibitionism. This is all about getting turned on by being watched. This could be your kink if you’ve ever fantasized about having sex, masturbating, or getting naked in front of others.
So without further ado, here are the top America’s Kinkiest States.
#1 - Georgia
Georgia came in first place with an average monthly Google search volume of 521 per 100,000 residents. Here’s another Georgia sex fun fact. While they may be #1 on the kink list, they’re on the bottom of the amount of time having sex. It’s a whopping 2:07 minutes. For comparison, number one in that category is New Mexico at 7:01 minutes.
#2 - Nevada
Nevada came in second with an average monthly Google kink search of 509 per 100,000 residents. Nevada sex fun fact. As I’m sure you know, it’s the only state to legalize sex work. Legal brothels exist in 10 of Nevada’s 17 counties.
#3 - New York
New York is third with 508 Google kink searches per 100,000 residents. If you’re looking for something different for your next trip to NY, Viator had a special tour you used to be able to book. The “Get Your Kink On: Fetish and Fantasy NYC Walking Tour isn’t currently bookable, but who knows. Maybe it’ll be back.
#4 - Texas
Texas has 498 Google kink searches per 100,000 residents. You found this article just in time because Austin Kink Week is almost here. Featuring workshops, parties, markets, and more. It takes place from April 18th – 20th and you can get all the info you need HERE.
#5 - North Carolina & Colorado
Both North Carolina have 494 searches per 100,000 residents. While kink may be their thing, there are still some strange sex laws on the books in North Carolina. For example, while having sex, you must stay in the missionary position and have the shades pulled. Also, it’s against the law to have sex in a churchyard.
#6 - California
In California, there are 488 monthly searches per 100,000 residents. Looking for a sex-positive, kink allied therapist? HERE are some you can check out listed in California. But it’s 2024, so you can check them out online as well.
#7 - Washington
In Washington, there are 484 searches per 100,000 residents.
#8 - Utah & Illinois
Utah and Illinois are tied with 479 searches per 100,000 residents.
Massachusetts
We’re number 10! We’re number 10! Massachusetts had 462 Google kink searches per 100,000 residents. After doing the research for this article, I’m sure I definitely added to that number. Hope the IT department doesn’t check my search history.
